Parent Relations

Parents of young children are generally the most influential enabler of a child's approach to the sport. Think of the parents of the children in your team as 'partners'. To ensure clear communication it is important to outline your coaching approach and that you will value their support over the season. Be consistent and fair in your dealings with them.

If you are having trouble or not sure how to deal with a parent the junior committee can help you out.

In an ideal scenario, parents will continue to support your coaching philosophy away from the team environment by reinforcing the attitudes and behaviours that you are instilling in the team environment. Developing a code of conduct may be helpful if this is something that can be agreed upon and should be developed at the start of the season.

Other initiatives such as pre-season meetings (or drinks) with parents can be a great way to get your parents on your side. This creates a platform for you to share your philosophy and expectations prior to the season. Talk about training, games and the logistics of it all and of course the importance of the parent-coach relationship.

You could also get the children to work collaboratively with their parents to decide on personal goals and milestones.

Educate parents on positive parenting behaviour by pointing them to help articles under the "parents" section on our website.

Promote communication channels. How to communicate with you, the manager, the club. Be open to what parents have to say without being defensive. Let parents know the appropriate time and place for discussions and help them to understand that the team is not only run by you but also involves others within the team and the club.